(this has been edited now that I've tested some stuff and re-evaluated how to explain a couple things)
Hi guys, I have a dilemma. Metal is a genre that I... have a complicated relationship with. I desperately want more from this genre, but there are precious few bands that I know of that I actually like. Digging through other threads made it obvious I need to start my own because those who have asked for suggestions before are simply too dis-similar to my tastes. As the thread title suggested, I'm very picky with this genre... don't get offended if you suggest something and I can't stand it; you've been warned.
Now, what exactly do I want? Simply put, I like the more... dark, artistic, melodic side of the metal genre. For example, I like bands that use a lot of layered sounds and atypical instruments (lots of piano, violin for example instead of just guitar/drums/etc) that beautifully mix in a well thought-out way. The kind of music where you don't notice every intricate detail the first listen-through. In contrast, I can't stand "white noise" instrumentals (where instruments are played so quickly, loudly, or without variation of notes that it comes across as... white noise). And screaming/growling I am so picky about I almost can't describe it; in general, just think of that as being a no-go for me unless it's something very, very... articulate?
So, some examples of what I DON'T like:
- Judas Priest -basically anything that has that high-pitched, 80/90's vibe hair metal feel to it I'm 99.9% garunteed to not like :'(
- Motionless in White - The song "America" I actually really, REALLY like, but most of their other stuff is too... new age/screamo/not melodic enough for my taste
- Icon for Hire - Too happy/"teenager" vibed, if that makes any sense. Also, far too close to what I consider white noise
- Semblant - Their vocals; this one is weird because I feel like with different vocals I would have loved their instruments
- Gothminister - a lot of you might not even know what this stereotype-from-hell is, but I bring him up to say I don't like the... upbeat, theatrical style? I don't know how to explain this band, honestly
- Metallica - Most of their stuff isn't my style at all. But they have a few songs such as Until It Sleeps that are just pure bliss to me
- Nightwish - I honestly can't explain why I don't like them. Some of their instrument work I like, but it's as if it doesn't... come together just right, so to speak. And the vocalist I also don't like
- Kamelot - No one reason in particular. I suppose this style would fall under what I would consider something that... takes itself too seriously, if that makes any sense. I can't really explain it; it has a very heroic, be-as-energized-as-possible vibe to it that clashes with my musical taste quite harshly.
Some examples of what I ALMOST or PARTIALLY like:
- Opeth - Their song Harvest is a great example of what I love (on the slow end of things of course) but their growling is outside of my taste (and their stuff that is heavier than Harvest involves it)
- Otep (referring to their earlier stuff, ofc) - I love their dark/melancholic style, but... something just... eh, I dunno. Getting closer though. For example, the beginning of Ghostflowers... chills of goodness, then the song gets heavy and ruins it for me
- Graveworm - old band that just kept going; very hit or miss with me depending on the album. They have two slow songs I absolutely love (Memories and Threnody) and three heavies from a more recent album that I like (Circused of the Damned, Diabolical Figures, and Architects of Hate)
- Flyleaf - bet you didn't see that one coming. Actually, (since Flyleaf can't even be considered metal) the reason I include this is just to give an example of what kind of female voice I like. Some of her songs I really like, such as All Around Me, other songs I can't stand to listen to, either because she tries (and fails, imo) to growl or the instrumental work is different.
- Louna - I like the vocalist/don't like the instruments
- Abigail Williams - Sometimes I get in a mood for a few of their songs, such as Like Carrion Birds... beyond that, not really my style (amazing drummer though).
- Demon Hunter - There's about 3 or so songs from each album I really like, such as My Throat is an Open Grave, Blood in the Tears, Our Faces Fall Apart, Deteriorate, and The Tide Began to Rise.
Basically there's a lot of bands that I know of that I really, REALLY like 2-3 songs from and then the other ## number of songs they've produced I don't like at all.
Things I actually DO like:
- Theatre of Tragedy (only their 3rd album, Aegis; their first two albums are a bore imo, their 4th wasn't even metal, and 5+ is just... let's not talk about it... BUT THEIR 3rd ALBUM ON MY GOD) - A-fucking-mazing instruments, pleasant female lead voice, growling only being used for backing singing is a nice touch... so much goodness
- Black Veil Brides - hold up, don't roast me, I'll explain... their FIRST album. That first album scratched an itch that nobody else was... and then the band as a whole went to hell... RIP.
- Anders Manga - Not even metal but I know there's plenty of metal bands that have the same psychedelic, gothic vibes as he does. P.S. I love Anders' vocals. Check out Shiver, The Source, or You Don't Wanna if you don't know who this guy is.
- Agalloch (this was suggested to me below. I've listened to and completely fallen in love with this band's sound)
- A few bands that are more rock oriented rather than typical metal would be Eisbrecher, Oomph!, and Lord of the Lost (only select songs from LotL do I like).
- Deathklock - DO YOU FOLKS LIKE COFFEE??? (my taste for Deathklock is mostly fueled by my sense of humor. Don't let Deathklock's style influence you too much in regards to what kind of style I like listening to. It's complicated)
Well then, you're probably reeling from the somewhat mixed signals. If you dare to take on the challenge of finding a band that I'd like, I only have one thing to say... GOOD LUCK! I believe I'll update this original post as I remember more details to add. It's 2:30 in the morning so... not thinking very clearly.