OK, first off, not being homophobic! I'm gay, and I'm using the adjective in it's purest form. I wanna know what you guys consider the 'gayest' songs or music videos! LOL I've got some of my own suggestions, but am always curious to hear new candidates!
Well, I don't! I'm sorry if it offends you, but referring to a song as more "gay" than another doesn't offend me. I'm not using gay in a negative context, I'm using it in a positive way.
I suspect until you really own the word gay in yourself, it can be a bit of a problematic term to younger guys, due to how much its come back into vogue as a casual derogatory term almost even void of sexul conatitons.
I didn't put "Vogue" on my list mostly because it treads that fine line between 'over the top gay' and 'fun, pop, danceable gay'... LOL
I do get what Brennan was saying about using the word 'gay' that way, but remember, gay actually means 'happy' in english, it was only in the 19th and then 20th centuries that it was used to refer to non-hetero folk :P
Do you find the term "gay bar" "gay Icon" or "Gay rights" offencive?
And you can't use the word "faggot" anymore either, you...it used to be a lovely bundle of sticks. On cold winters' nights you'd throw another faggot on the fire. But now they work in restaurants, making your salads, being snotty and still expecting fifteen percent.
Can't use the word "fisting" anymore either, oh no. No, no. But back in the forties the girls and I used to fist every Sunday afternoon. It was a knitting stitch, and a very difficult one.