Hi guys. A few weeks ago I decided that I wanted to finally shed those extra 60+ pounds that I had been carrying around for the past few years and have been exercising daily as well as cutting way down on what I eat for almost 3 weeks now. So far I've dropped a little over 12 pounds.
I thought I'd write this piece just to let any of you guys who are struggling with your weight loss or want to lose weight know what seems to be working for me. So a few points:
You gotta want it
For you to lose weight consistently over long periods of time, you gotta want it more than you've ever wanted anything else in your life. Make a list of the reasons why you want to lose weight, and read it over and over again until those reasons are etched into your brain.
Stay motivated:
Currently on the back of my door, I have a list of all the reasons that I want to lose weight. I have it there so I am forced to see it everyday I leave my apartment. Not only that, but I also have a calendar on my wall where I write my weight down daily. Being constantly reminded why I want to lose the weight as well as seeing the consistent weight loss day has really done wonders for my willpower.
Visualize future you:
Everyday, you should think about what you want to be in the future. Everyday, you should think about the body you want to have in a few years. Everyday, you should remind yourself the repercussions future you will have to deal with if you don't take steps towards your end goal today. Have a clear picture in your head of the man or woman that you want to become.
Weigh yourself regularly:
I know there is no consensus on how frequently you should weigh yourself, but I find daily weigh ins seem to work best for me. Weighing yourself frequently is a good way to make sure that what you are doing is working. You could also do things like take measurements if you are so inclined. Please note that you should always weigh yourself in the morning when your stomach is the least full, otherwise your weight will fluctuate a good amount.
Don't clean your plate:
I know that in many parts of the United States and probably around the world, it is considered wasteful not to finish off the food that you've prepared. However, this often leads to you eating way more than you want to and being uncomfortably full. I decided that every meal I was going to leave just a little bit of food on my plate, and gradually that amount of food has grown larger as my appetite seems to be getting smaller and smaller. Doing this alone will shed calories off your daily intake.
Drink plenty of water:
Since the majority of water you consume comes in the form of food, you'll want to drink plenty of water to make up for that extra water that you'll be losing. Not only that, but your appetite goes down a good bit when you have a belly full of water.
Eat foods that make you feel good:
When I say eat foods that make you feel good, I don't mean foods that taste good, like sweets and junk food. I mean foods that don't leave you feeling bloated, overly stuffed, etc. Fruits and vegetables are great because they keep you full for long periods of time on minimal calories, all without giving you that nasty bloated feeling you get from something greasy like fast food.
Realize that the first few weeks are as hard as it's going to get:
Want to give up? Don't. Especially not in the first few weeks. It takes at least a few weeks to form new habits, and just like a smoker recovering from cigarettes, your body and mind will put up a hell of a fight. It will be incredibly difficult not to give into that temptation to sit around all day, or eat junk food, fast food, etc. You gotta realize, however, that those first few weeks are as hard as it's going to get. After that, it'll become easier and easier to just stick to eating healthy and exercising daily.
Some days will be realllllyy tough:
Yesterday, I had probably the biggest temptations so far to give in and pig out. I had to muster all the willpower in my body to not give into those desires just to go back to my old lifestyle and give up. Instead of pigging out, I left my apartment and went on a long walk. By the time I got back, I didn't even care about eating anymore. You gotta realize that there will be a few really critical points where you really want to give in, but you just have to fight it with all the strength you can muster. Just like every other emotion or feeling that you have, eventually these cravings will subside.
(Optional) Drink coffee:
I find that a cup of coffee a day keeps my appetite suppressed and my body energized. Helps keep me going through the day.
(Optional) Meditate:
I picked up meditation a few months ago and it has done wonders for my willpower and emotional well-being. I find that daily meditation helps to keep my head clear, and it helps keep all the nasty thoughts like "You'll probably fail at this" or "Just give up" to a minimum. It's also a great mood booster, and it helps to keep your perspective in check. I'll probably make a post about the benefits of meditation at some point as I can't recommend it enough.
Feel free to post what you find works for you bellow, detail your experiences, etc. I'll probably be updating this post over the next few months as I continue my weight loss journey.