It’s not super clear how your network works, for example just because 2.4Ghz is hidden doesen’t mean devices from that network can’t communicate with other netowks - either WiFi or LAN.
What I could put together from the description is you likely have 3 possible scenarios:
Scenario 1:
Your server is infected with malware that is receiving commands from the IP and BitDefender is terminating the connection.
Possible resolutions
Get a live boot antivirus tool and do a scan on the server while the PC is not running Windows, something like Kaspersky Rescue Disk, ESET SysRescue Live, Bitdefender Rescue CD…
Scenario 2:
You have port forwards that, well forward any traffic from your public IP to your server and BitDefender is preventing intrusion on the PC firewall level. Sometimes software, such as Plex, punches holes in your ISP and/or any other router that is UPnP compliant and has it on.
The idea is to make itself available to you even if you are not home, but this makes it available to the whole Internet as well - bad idea. This is how people end up with cameras in their homes streaming to the Internet without their knowledge.
Quick edit:
I’d say this is less likely but not impossible. If you had open ports you would be up to your balls in intrusion attempts, not just from single IP.
Possible resolutions:
Try and scan your public IP for open ports. There is a lot of tools to try and test this, such as yougetsignal website, or even use a laptop with mobile hotspot and nmap. Scan for common ports, or just a range of ports if you use nmap.
Scenario 3:
It’s a false positive, but may not be likely given that the IP has bad rep for malware and phishing.
Anyway, I’ve reported that IP for abuse and provider may take it down and you may see a change in behavior if they do. Maybe intrusion attempts stop or maybe the IP changes. But that still depends on VPS provider Mevspace.