I bought this motherboard and processor, this is my first build so I knew I would mess up somewhere, I didn't see that the Intel processors were not compatible with the Intel Motherboards. I assumed they would be because of what the name would imply.
Is there a way to still make this work? Thank you for any helpful answers, I will buy a new motherboard if needed but I really like this Asrock. Here is the parts http://imgur.com/72AFJ2u
CPU and Motherboard in the Image you linked should be perfectly compatible. What issue do you have?
EDIT: I checked the CPU compatibility list on asrock's site and found that you need to update the BIOS to at least 1.10 for 4th gen intel Core CPU support http://www.asrock.com/mb/Intel/Fatal1ty%20B85%20Killer/?cat=Download&os=BIOS
Your BIOS likely is lacking support for the processor. Contact Asrock and have them send you a new up-to-date BIOS chip.
Older BIOS version is probably the culprit
I would like to flash it myself with a usb if possible, where would I look on the motherboard site to see if it supports this? Because I know some motherboards cannot be flashed via usb, but if it is possible I am ok with doing it this way.
Asrock motherboards do not have the ability to flash BIOS without working CPU (Asus is the only one that has that functionality). You will have to get Asrock to send you a new BIOS chip (but it is free so you don't have to worry about paying), sorry.