TL;DR
Kentucky-based EKU Honors alum, curious idiot trying to learn the way without burning money, time, or sanity. I have an EPYC 7532 and want to build a cheap, boring, low-headache Proxmox + ZFS box to replace Google/iCloud, run Jellyfin, host local services, experiment with containers/networking, and do **local-first cryptographic/DeFi **. Idle XMR mining only when nothing else is happening. Stability >cheap > loud > performance. Looking for guidance on cheap SP3 boards, minimum sane RAM, storage layout, and “don’t do this” warnings. Will trade for DIY Solar knowledge.
Hey all — first things first, I do not know what I’m doing in this space but, curiosity and the desire to run my stuff at home, ditch the cloud and my icloud and google storage bills for a couple good friends and my kids, host some media, and learn some stuff along the way.
Most, if not all of this is genuinely over my head. I’m a curious tech nerd who likes tinkering, understands just enough to get into trouble, and is trying to learn without spending all of my free time participating in 20 side quests just to get this running.
So looking for straight to the point, talk to me like I’m an idiot and tell me
- “That’s dumb”
- “That’ll bite you later”
- “Slow down and do this first”
Looking to build a Proxmox backbone that will house NAS, private cloud storage, some media server ability although not sure how much at this point. HomeAssistant with solar assistant, also some XMR mining when things are idle, defi projects, some local AI and whatever rabbit holes I fall into on the way.
What I Have for the Build
- CPU: AMD EPYC 7532 (32c/64t, Rome)
That’s it so far.
Where I Need Help (I’m Dumb and buy the CPU First)
- Cheap SP3 motherboards that don’t suck -realize they are not inexpensive overall
- Realistic minimum RAM (64 vs 128 GB) -know it has to be ECC
- Gotchas running Proxmox + ZFS + Jellyfin + mining together
- Things that seem smart early but become nightmares later
I’m trying to build something boring, cheap, and while I learn — because I also need time and mental energy to:
- Find a new job
- Be a dad
- Live a little
- Go to music festivals
- Not hate my life
If the advice is “simplify this” or “don’t do that yet,” I’m listening.
Thanks for reading, and appreciate any guidance, reality checks, or “don’t do what I did” stories.