Basically I’m building an unraid machine the specs are
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Gigabyte X399 AORUS PRO
I don’t know what ecc ram to buy. I did try the samsung M393A1G40DB0-CPB and it wouldn’t boot(it was a single used stick bought on ebay though). I plan on having 50tb+hdds on here and need a solid recommendation for ecc ram that is guaranteed to work so would really appreciate any help.
That is the wrong memory, it’s an RDIMM (Registered aka buffered memory), the X399 only takes ECC (U)DIMMs (Unbuffered aka Unregistered memory).
Indeed, I’m not sure if Threadripper even supports RDIMMs at all, those are usually the territory of servers.
The upside being that your RDIMM likely is fine, it’s just unfortunately not usable with the board you have.
To go into a bit more detail: while RDIMMs technically need not be buffered they, in my experience, pretty much always are, so it’s often not even listed that they are ECC (eg. Samsung’s website explicitly equates RDIMM to ECC RDIMM and their actual spec pages don’t mention the ECC part).
UDIMMs are a different matter, without ECC they are just regular PC memory, so there the ECC ability tends to be explicitly listed, as per the listing @zlynx linked.