Something I wanted to share

Max_RTW · May 9, 2014, 8:10pm

In advance; sorry if this is a misplaced thread!

Dear people

My name is Max and I would like to share my story about how I met my girlfriend and why she is so great to write a blog about.

Let me start off with myself;

-autism (PDD-NOS) in a light form

-metalhead, grown up with regular metal, trash and heavy/death -metal and now black, death, pagan and folk rule my life

-game enthusiast without any money :')

Enough of that crap!

About two and a half year ago was hanging out on chatroulette because I didn't had anything better to do at that time.

Always running in to people who skipped you anyways etc. Etc.

But after months of boredom and being on chatroulette I ran into this Norwegian girl which actually wanted to have a nice conversation with a stranger! So I kept talking to her for about an hour or so and after that I added her to facebook.

After we met on chatroulette we started talking over facebook every now and then.

After half a year or so we didn't say a single thing to eachother for about 10 months or so, because we simply forgot about eachother.

After that my life got really hectic, and I couldn't handle really much. It wasn't going really well at school and stuff like that and it was a little too much. Each time she talked to me at facebook I ignored or denied her messages and such. Then after a few months again it was going better at school and at home, I wasn't being grumpy to anyone for no reason and I started talking to her again.

We were having really nice, funny, emotional and deep conversations about all kinds of things.

After a few months of talking she started talking more about herself.

She told me a lot about herself and her time at school.

She got teased and mocked a lot at school, and I was one of the first people to actually be nice to her. And I kind of had the same at my previous schools, got mocked, beaten up and stuff so I knew how to react to that by being nice and caring to people If they need that.

And it was also nice to hear that somebody liked me for who I am.

I kind of felt she wasn't just your regular girl you meet at school, not by far!

She was kind of special and I felt the need to meet her sometime.

At this point we are 2 years after we first talked to eachother...

She started sending me letters, really nice and beautiful letters. Written on very luxurious papers and enveloppes, like I really mattered to her.

This was new for me, I finally had the feeling someone really cared about me.

It was february 2013 and she asked me a few times if she could come over sometime in the summer vacation.

I said to her that it was okay but I didn't knew what I was doing and I was scared to tell it to my parents and explain how this whole situation was created Because I thought they would laugh at me or be angry.

I kept on saying it was okay to come over to the Netherlands but didn't knew if my parents would allow it or not and was stressing instant for a month because I was scared if my parents would be angry or not.

After all she went on a holiday to the Netherlands with her mother, so in the last days ahe was visiting the Netherlands I finally told my mother how we met etcetera and that she wanted to come over for a day.

Mother asked me why I didn't told her more early and that is when I explained it.

So the day after that she and her mother took the train to my place and my mother picked them up from the trainstation and brought them to my home.

When they arrived, my brother came out of the house, she was disappointed because she wanted to see me instead. But a moment later I came out of the house.

she looked kinda dreamy.

She walked upon me and hugged me really tight.

That was the moment I fell in love with her.

We had a nice day so far, we didn't say much but that was allright. It was nice to be with her although it was such a short amount of time.

At the end of the day we brought them back at the trainstation to return to the hotel in Amsterdam where they stayed during their holiday.

When she stepped out of the car she hugged me really tight and gave me a kiss.

It was truly magical!

She took a seat in the bus and I saw she started crying.

That was also a hard moment for me, but I managed to hold my tears.

We went back home after the bus left our sight, and my mother started asking questions.

Later that summer vacation her family invited me to come over to celebrate christmas with her family. And again the feeling of panic started to creep me out. I did not know how to handle this because I have never been in a situation like this.

So I started to deny all of her invitations and taking distance from her and chatting with her.

I did this for a few months and then realized that she cared about me, and that I also cared about her and actually fell in love with her without knowing.

LUCKILY I started talking to her again and she was happy to hear from me again.

Around December 2013 she arranged a trip to the Netherlands again at the 14th of February *wink wink* *nudge nudge*.

So she came over for 4 days, and I finally behaved naturally. It felt right to be with her again!

And we had a wonderful 4 days with eachother.

After that I booked a flight to Norway from the 25th of April til the 4th of may.

Now a timejump to the 25th of april this year.

I got off the plane, it was evening and it was dark in Oslo.

I retrieved my luggage from the airport and walked throught the duty free zone to the final sliding doors.

There she was, wearing a beatiful flower dress.

I hugged her really tight and kissed her for several minutes.

After that we went to the train to get back home.

After we got from the train we had to take the bus to another place, from there we got picked up by her parents and one of her brothers.

It is a really nice family, her mother is really caring and kind, her father is a nice guy, brothers are cool and play the same games as I do and stuff.

Just something many people would wish for!

I just had a wonderful time in Norway during those days, it was magical!

But the reason I am actually writing all of this, is because of that one girl what I am constantly talking about.

That girl is Konstanse, and she is the best thing ever happened to me so far!

and I am proud to say; Jeg elsker deg Konstanse!

Thank you for reading!

Theonewhoisdrunk · May 9, 2014, 9:52pm

Interesting read, thank you for sharing! I wish you the best of luck in life.

Sukumu · May 10, 2014, 2:44pm

I'm glad for you! She must be really nice. :3

Inaki · May 10, 2014, 2:59pm

That was a good story, almost like one of the stories you read on the internet :P. just kidding I wish you the best of luck in life.

Max_RTW · May 11, 2014, 5:35pm

Thank you all for the kind reactions to this.

I actually made some people cry when I shared the story on facebook :p

Well anyways; thank you all so far!