Skyrim Modding Help Needed!

OK, to start off my goal as of the moment is to mod skyrim for immersion. now these are all the current mods that i have installed that i can fit on my drive at the moment. the main problem i am having is getting the "CampingKitNorthernRanger.esp" to either show that its working in game via the pause menus mod config. 
to add to the problem of obtaining immersion it seems that the ability to drink and eat with :"RealisticNeedsandDiseases.esp" on and patches in what i can only assume are the right places. some help to find a way to correct these 2 issues would be great. i have tried reinstalling both game and NMM, tried manual install aswell as using an optimizer to ensure it wasnt a "slowness of the game" issue. 

 

i use sharpshooter ENB w/.229 and SweetFX both INjected

thanks for your time any input would be great, below is my load order if you need more information please ask :)  
 b.t.w; these mods are installed on a non-steam skyrim, but have lates patches and DLC (note: some mods do not have dlc addons) 




 

GameMode=Skyrim

Skyrim.esm=1

Dawnguard.esm=1

Dragonborn.esm=1

HearthFires.esm=1

Update.esm=1

SPIKE.esm=1

Skyrim Project Optimization - Full Version.esm=1

ClimatesOfTamriel.esm=1

ClimatesOfTamriel-Interiors-Warm.esp=1

ClimatesOfTamriel-Nights-Level-1.esp=1

ClimatesOfTamriel-Sound.esp=1

HighResTexturePack01.esp=1

HighResTexturePack02.esp=1

HighResTexturePack03.esp=1

Unofficial Skyrim Patch.esp=1

Unofficial Dawnguard Patch.esp=1

Unofficial Hearthfire Patch.esp=1

Unofficial Dragonborn Patch.esp=1

Unofficial High Resolution Patch.esp=1

Chesko_Frostfall.esp=1

Hunterborn.esp=1

Hunterborn_RND-Patch.esp=1

Hunterborn_Dawnguard-Patch.esp=1

Hunterborn_Frostfall-Patch.esp=1

CampingKitNorthernRanger.esp=1

RealisticNeedsandDiseases.esp=1

RND_Dawnguard-Patch.esp=1

RND_HearthFires-Patch.esp=1

RND_Dragonborn-Patch.esp=1

RND_DrinkingFountains-Patch.esp=0

RND_USKP-Patch.esp=1

SkyUI.esp=1

iHUD.esp=1

StaticMeshImprovementMod.esp=1

StaticMeshImprovementMod-FurnitureChestSnowFix.esp=1

Realistic Lighting Overhaul - Major City Interiors.esp=1

Realistic Lighting Overhaul - Major City Exteriors.esp=1

Realistic Lighting Overhaul - Minor Cities and Town Interiors.esp=1

Realistic Lighting Overhaul - Dungeons.esp=1

Realistic Lighting Overhaul - Dawnguard Interiors.esp=1

WATER.esp=1

RND_Water-Patch.esp=1

AOS.esp=1

Guard Dialogue Overhaul.esp=1

SoS - The Wilds.esp=1

Improved Combat Sounds v2.2.esp=1

ADS.esp=1

Skyrim Flora Overhaul.esp=1

Supreme Storms - Cot Version.esp=1

randomthunder.esp=1

prod80_SupremeStorms_CoT_patch.esp=1

Real Clouds.esp=1

dD - Realistic Ragdoll Force - Realistic.esp=1

Locational Damage.esp=1

Immersive Weapons.esp=1

hothtrooper44_ArmorCompilation.esp=1

Cloaks.esp=1

1nivWICCloaks.esp=1

360WalkandRunPlus-RunBackwardSpeedAdjust.esp=1

WeaponsOf3E.esp=1

WeaponsOf3E - No Leveled Lists.esp=1

Smithing Perks Overhaul - Balanced.esp=1

Complete Crafting Overhaul - BS version.esp=1

Weapons and Armor fixes.esp=1

Weapons and Armor fixes - Hacks.esp=1

Appropriately Attired Jarls Redux.esp=1

SPTDiverseGuardsSkyrim.esp=1

StormcloakArmorVariety.esp=1

LegionArmorVariety.esp=1

Proper Aiming.esp=1

dD-No Spinning Death Animation.esp=1

The Dance of Death - Ultimate Edition.esp=1

HeartBreaker.esp=1

dD - Enhanced Blood Main.esp=1

better_torches.esp=1

MoreBanditCamps(Explorer'sEdition).esp=1

AmazingFollowerTweaks.esp=1

SFO - Expanded Diversity.esp=1

Duel - Combat Realism.esp=1

DYNAVISION Dynamic Depth of Field.esp=1

SkyFalls - Distant Waterfall Overhaul.esp=1

Dr_Bandolier.esp=1

Beards.esp=1

Brows.esp=1

SMDropLitTorch.esp=1

Realistic Running Speed.esp=1

AT - Faster Arrows Improved +10%.esp=1

AT - Loot Arrows -25%.esp=1

AT - Merchants Arrows +50%.esp=1

AT - Progressive Damage (BS and CCO).esp=1

AT - Recover +10% Arrows.esp=1

getSnowy.esp=1

Headbomb's Better Sorting - Ammo.esp=1

Headbomb's Better Sorting - Books.esp=1

Headbomb's Better Sorting - Food (Weightless).esp=1

Headbomb's Better Sorting - Ingredients.esp=1

Headbomb's Better Sorting - Miscellaneous.esp=1

Headbomb's Better Sorting - Potions (Weightless).esp=1

Headbomb's Better Sorting - Soul Gems (Ranked).esp=1

Headbomb's Better Sorting - Spells.esp=1

Morning Fogs.esp=1

prod80_CoT_patch_FogEdition.esp=1

Footprints.esp=1

BFSEffects.esp=1

Unique BOOZE Bottles.esp=1

Killable Lootable Children.esp=1

KnapsackEnhanced.esp=1

Alternate Start - Live Another Life.esp=1

it Probably Is a Load order. but do take into consideration that the Mods you install don't always have a tweak option on the Mod Menu when you pause the game.