Thanks again for all of the responses
I still havent downloaded fraps so i cant really say what the exact fps woud be, although ive read that fraps really ups the load (specially on an amd apu like the 6800k)
but i can tell you i have tried the following games
Black Mesa
Comand and conquer 4
ff7 with a bunch of mods
skyrim
farcry 3
farcry 3 blood dragon
crysis 3
tomb raider
bioshock infinite
..... i feel like im missing a couple more but you get the point,,, ive tried a bunch of games and they all play awesome,,,, it feels like even if my cpu is bottlenecking my gpu, it doesnt matter,, its not bottlenecking it enough to make a big difference
all of the games ive tried play incredibly well,,, i alway use the maximum settings on everything
the only thing is that i have a 1080p monitor so thats the resolution i use,,, i havent been able to try 1440p or anything like that so i dont know how well it would do in that case, but now im begining to think that i made an excellent choice with this 6800k
i spent probably half of what i would have spent otherwise and eveything looks and plays amazingly
i probably will eventually get myself an i5 and use this 6800k for an htpc but now theres no hurry,,, i have yet to find a game that stutters on my machine and i doubt i will find one soon,,,, plus if it does happen to come along,, ill just bring the settings down to high instead of ultra LOL :)
anyways i hope this helps someone who is looking for this type of info
(by the way,, i hope my girlfriend would know what a graphics card is, but the truth is we choose our gifts and this year we decided they were going to be $300 gifts so i chose the 7970 cause i found it on sale for $299,, i guess thats my explanation for not popping the question right then and there, LOL, i guess girls that would really know about a 7970 are like unicorns, mystical creatures from myth, at least thats my experience, there might be other pistols out there but i havent seen any in real life)