New and scared

So as the title indicates im new to overclocking and scared as all fuck incase i break my computer.

the reason im overlocking is because my gpu is being bottlenecked by my cpu and i dont have enough money to go out and buy a new cpu, and that why im here i need help. i need to get as much as i can from my cpu my specs are: 

cpu:http://www.overclockers.co.uk/showproduct.php?prodid=CP-314-AM&groupid=701&catid=1967&subcat=1942

gpu:http://www.overclockers.co.uk/showproduct.php?prodid=GX-098-GI&groupid=701&catid=56&subcat=1673

motherboard:http://www.overclockers.co.uk/showproduct.php?prodid=MB-460-AS&groupid=701&catid=1903&subcat=2046

RAM:16gb http://www.corsair.com/en/memory-by-product-family/xms-classic/cmx8gx3m2a2000c9.html

power supply:http://www.overclockers.co.uk/showproduct.php?prodid=CA-037-CS&groupid=701&catid=123&subcat=2463

cpu cooler:http://www.overclockers.co.uk/showproduct.php?prodid=HS-006-CS&groupid=701&catid=2330&subcat=2342

case: 6/7 fans http://www.overclockers.co.uk/showproduct.php?prodid=CA-063-CS&groupid=2362&catid=1489

thanks for any and all help

sorry all this the ram ive got http://www.corsair.com/en/memory-by-product-family/xms-classic/xms3-8gb-dual-channel-ddr3-memory-kit-cmx8gx3m2b1600c9.html

mrneedham  ocing a 4100 is easy enough just bump up the multiplier. if it isn't stable after a bump up the voltage  a little and try again. should be able to hit 4.1 ghz easily enough.

Go in to the bios and set the cpu in "turbo mode" this will run the chip @ 3.8Ghz without overclocking 

That shude help a little 

I don't think an OC is going to remove your bottleneck...

no it wont remove it but it will help with it until i can buy a new cpu

also with turbo mode i get 3.9ghz

if you get 3.9ghz in turbo mode bonus!! xD