Need Help with DVI to VGA Connector

So at the moment im using a older monitor to use until Christmas, this monitor (vga) cant connect to my GPU which has 2 dvi ports (one dvi-i, one dvi-d). So for the monitor should i get a dvi male to vga male connector or a dvi male to vga female connector? Also which dvi port should i use? 

Just pick yourself up a cheap DVI to VGA adapter and use a vga cable. You're gonna want to use the standard DVI port, not the digital one btw. I've never seen the adapter work with the DVI-D port anyways because they have the extra pins.