Now and again someones pet dies or family member, but its very odd to see someone die that is around your age unless you’re over 70 (IMO). This week has been hard for me and I don’t know how to make it all stop in my head other than talking about it with people.
Yesterday I learned that a friend of mine who worked as a firefighter had died. Not sure how, still no news on it, and the only thing I could find was that there was a big car crash on the highway but nowhere near where she even lived. This was someone that was in almost all of my classes from 7th grade till graduation so it was really really weird for that to be done forever. Especially as I had just run into her at a store a while ago but I didn’t have time to stop and chat. The idea that I’ll never talk to her again is both hard to grip but at the same time I don’t know how much we would have talked from now on. Maybe just the memory seated with the fact is unsettling?
Then this morning I learned of a friend who committed suicide. I hadn’t talked to him since last august, but apparently someone decided to start some shit with him and eventually pulled the pedo card, and from there the internet escalated it into the sky to the point where police showed up, asked some nonchalant questions, and wrote the most vague report possible. From there, he got months and months of hate and attack until he killed himself before going into an actual trial to decide if he would go to jail or not. He never got to plead guilty or not guilty, and probably felt that he was doomed either way. I don’t know the rest of it, as I only found out the pedo shit this morning. Apparently other rumors were started, like he was a serial rapist, that he was a mall shooter that was never caught, that he was a thief, and all of it is blatant lies. Probably one of the nicest people I’ve ever met. Wished I had talked to him more now…
I don’t understand why people must be so evil to each other. Whether its that they are a rapist, or some tard on the internet that doesn’t think about the product of their actions. No one deserves treatment of brutality, and no one deserves death for anything. Even if they killed someone. I wish people would chill out more. Drive slower on icy roads, listen to more lo-fi, just mellow out… Sadly though, someone could have an off day, take it out on someone they don’t know, and next thing they know the swatting they did got a guy shot atd they don’t know how to handle the situation.
I guess thats why I’m in the furry fandom is so I have a place to belong, a group of outcasts, in a way, that sometimes have each others back. Though for my friend, the fandom was happier to attack him than seek help for him. And whether he listened to them or ignored them, he was going to be in deep shit whether his conviction was legit or not.
We should make an example of things like that to be honest. Have people who mass bully someone to death be put in jail for 2 months or so. Or longer. 2 years? Is it technically murder? I’d say so.
What we should also do is have a better support system for people that have wrong mental wiring. Whether its autism, pedophilia, bipolar disorder, gender disorientation, or what have you. There should be better structures in place other than “no fuck you go die”. I half want to go into law and medicine just to help advance that shit.
At this point I’m rambling. I’m done.