Ok so i have tried the razer death stalker, razer anansi and the 2013 blackwidow ultimate.

Didnt like the Death stalker keys , the anansi i had stopped working and the keys on the blackwidow are too loud they bother other people in the room and i game at night so its a problem.

Can anyone point me to a gaming keyboard that is backlit and isnt really loud?

There is a stealth version of the BWU.