Caution!
As soon as you ask ten people for partitioning advise, you'll get fifteen different opinions. The reason for this is simple, Linux is so flexible, that it is equally at home on a smart phone, a laptop, a server, or a super computer. Therefore, the partitioning scheme can and should be adjusted to both the use case, as well as the available hardware.
There is no right answer, but most would be tempted to put /home on the spinning rust drive. Why would this be? Whelp, in the home directory, we find /documents, /downloads, /music, /pictures, /videos and /.steam. All of these types of data tends to take up quite a lot of room and most would not necessarily need to be on the SSD. Also, having /home on its own, makes upgrading your distribution far less painful, as data loss is less likely.
Some folks, on the other hand, want their /.steam directory on the SSD, because they wish to minimize game loading times, but are happy with their videos and music on the spinning drive.
Some would put /var and /tmp on the spinning drive to minimize the writes to their SSD, thus increasing its life. Having a separate /var also prevents this directory from growing too large and starving the rest of the filesystem for space.
Some don't like to have a /swap partition on a SSD, in order to minimize writes, but find that /swap on the spinning drive too slow, so they buy extra RAM and they don't use a /swap partition. Others would put the /swap on the SSD, but decrease the swappiness adjustment to a very low number, such as 10.
As you can see, there are many variables, but most folks are perfectly happy allowing the installer to set up a default filesystem. If they out-grow their primary disk, they can add a second disk, create a /music partition on it, for instance, and then create sym links between the /music directory of each disk.
BTW - There is no right, or wrong answer about the amount of swap space. If you have a lot of RAM, you may not need any swap at all. On the other hand, if you only have 2GB of RAM, but all you do is read e-mail on your machine, you still may not need any swap space. You have to monitor your RAM usage and see what is normal for your habits. If you find yourself running out of RAM, either buy more, or increase your swap space.
EDIT:
There is no such thing as a stupid question (usually). But I would urge you, as a new user, not to obsess over your filesystem. You will have plenty of opportunities to reinstall your system as distribution updates are released, or as you branch out and try different distributions. Believe me, you'll get plenty of opportunities to demonstrate your partitioning prowess. For now, get yourself a notebook, or a spreadsheet and document these nuggets that you are learning, so that you can plan your next install.