And we’re trying to help you by shedding light on the bigger picture…
Nobody here is against you and your project.
The problem is that you want to achieve something that has long been defined and cannot be bent.
What I am trying to tell you is that defending against ddos in home conditions is almost impossible if we do not use sensible architecture and solutions.
There is no free magic software that will suddenly solve a large ddos attack at home. These are clog attacks, designed to overload both the target server and its internet connection.
For this, there are commercial anti-ddos solutions that try to filter out hostile traffic and forward only normal traffic to the destination address, i.e. they scale down packets to a level where the destination host is still able to handle it.
Think of it as a club door with security in front of it. Protection prevents excessive packets from entering and filters out undesirable characters. As a result, there is an acceptable number of appropriate units inside the club.
Your home door to the club is unprotected and the entrance will be blocked by a mass of undesirable packets, in effect overloading the possibilities of entry, even the positive ones, are not able to get inside.
No matter how powerful you have a server/s at home and what bandwidth you have to connect to the Internet. You can always generate ddos on a scale that will overload your resources.
For this reason, commercial antiddos services are based on gigantic resources that are able to deal with a very large scale of ddos, both in terms of network bandwidth and computing power to analyze packets and separate them.
It won’t matter if your server is at home or colocated. It’s still the same technical situation.
There are providers of various vps/bare metal services on the market who offer additional ddos protection but it costs a little more.
Another thing is that hardly any company will be willing to take bullets in the chest for you. The moment you become a problem customer, they just kick you out.
Have you had ddos attacks before? Has any company refused to host you yet? If this is just your prediction, I recommend you to just start your business and only react in case of a problem.
There are companies that turn a blind eye to various things but they are not the cheapest and no one will give you a guarantee that you will not be kicked out.
I don’t know how extremely controversial/provocative stuff you want to host but among other things cloudflare’s filtering services are used by many torrent sites and no one refuses them service and you don’t want cloudflare.
If you want, I can suggest you a company registered in Hong Kong, behind which there are people from China/Russia and the servers are in Russia/USA/EU, among others, and payments are in crypto, but don’t expect them to take bullets in the chest for you.
So US bad, EU bad, Russia bad, China?
Something doesn’t add up here… This is starting to sound more like something illegal.
Then I don’t want anything to do with it!!!