ASUS UX32VD DB71 RAM Upgrade issues

I purchased an Asus UX32VD DB71 after seeing The Tek's review of it. I love the laptop, but I felt it needed a bit more RAM and an SSD. I finally got around to upgrading the SO-DIMM to this:

http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16820239289

 

However, when I upgraded the RAM, my machine blue screened with a "bad pool header" error after around 10 minutes of using it. I reinstalled the original 2GB stick and I'm not sure how to continue at this point.

Every site I've been to says that the RAM I selected should have been compaitble with my system, so am I doing something wrong?

This is 204 Pin RAM, You need 240 Pin RAM.

So does anyone know what RAM I should get? I can't find 240 pin DDR3 laptop memory anywhere.